Research has shown that every woman has the physical ability to ejaculate. But why is it that very few women ever get to this point? It all boils down to your technique in the bedroom. Although some women do cum faster and more often than others, you can make any girl achieve a powerful orgasm every time by following the three proven methods that never fail.
Ensure her mind is into it
Ever heard of the phrase sex is all in the mind? Well, the statement could not be more accurate when it comes to a girl’s orgasm. You need to plant the idea in their mind early enough and to nurture it throughout the day. Build the anticipation by whispering sweet nothings into her ears and telling her what you want to do to her. Make sure to use the dirty talk both during sex and foreplay. When her mind gets into it, her body will surely follow, and she will orgasm much quicker.
Take time to stimulate her clitoris before penetration
The clitoris is essential to any female ejaculation. So pleasuring this crucial part will go a long way in stimulating your girl. Your tongue is your secret weapon. Women are not able to resist the warm and soft sensation it provides. Don’t rush or push too hard though; take it slow and be persistent. Remember, Repetition is key. Make her feel that you won’t stop until she succumbs to the pleasure.
If you combine this with the dirty talk we discussed earlier, your girl will explode with just a few strokes when you finally get to penetration. Use two fingers to finger her upper wall while still performing oral. This will stimulate her g-spot. Going down on your girl will work miracles for you especially if you have problems lasting long.
Choose a favorable position
We have already established that the clitoris is key. Any sex position you choose should, therefore, be able to put pressure on it; your girl will not be reaching her climax otherwise. The truth is that most sex positions don’t stimulate a girl’s clitoris. You will need a little bit of innovation to achieve this fete. These three positions can help you get there.
(1) With your girl on top, make a fist and place it at the junction of your pelvises. She will press her clitoris against your fist every time she thrusts forward.
(2) Get your girl into a doggy style position. Position yourself behind her and reach out to stroke her clit while penetrating her from the rear.
(3) Get on top of your woman but with your chest closer to her shoulders instead of her chest. Your penis will move up and down into the vagina instead of the more common horizontal movement thus enhancing contact between your pelvic bone and her clit.
Most people will tell you that a girl takes somewhere between 15 and 20 minutes to cum. But what we know for certain is that generally, women take longer to ejaculate than men. So unless you want your girl to be faking it every time, you need to even out the playing field by implementing some of the techniques listed above.