There’s nothing quite like having lunch with your girlfriends and the topic of sex comes up. Of course, when the topic of sex comes up, a discussion of orgasms tends to follow suit. As women, our experiences with sex vary from woman to woman. For instance, some of us really struggle with having the big “O”, while some of us can’t shut up. Then, there are women like me who can get there, but not just with anybody. I need an emotional connection with my partner, which I have. Thank goodness! However, and sadly, he has a small penis. No, his penis isn’t small like a “small penis”. His penis is small like a baby carrot. His penis is “I-can’t-do-anything-with-it” small.
If you have ever had to deal with such a situation, please know that you are not alone. I was very grateful when I realized I wasn’t the only woman who dealt with this. Do not feel pressure to lie to your significant other. By doing so, you are only hurting them, yourself and your relationship. Even worse, you’re hurting your chances for a real orgasm! It is possible to have great sex with a man who has a small penis. Creativity goes a very long way (pun intended). There are so many techniques and handy tools and tricks out there; it’s going to blow your mind how easy it is to get bigger in the sack!
I highly suggest checking out your nearest sex toy store. I find it so hard to understand why sex toy stores are often considered dirty, perverted or just for Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s not! There is nothing bad about wanting to fulfill your sexual desires. Plus, let’s face it: when you’re not satisfied, nobody can be satisfied. Also, sex toy stores often have wonderful, educated store attendants who usually love talking about everything sex. I’m 100% positive you will not be the first person who walks into the store searching for ways to add some “length” to your bedroom time. Now of course if you’re shy, you can shop for sex toys online. Some great, well-known sex stores include Adam & Eve, Lovehoney and Jack and Jill Adult Superstore. Don’t worry, they mail very discreetly.
In addition, please consider the wonders of oral sex. A lot of women prefer oral sex over penetration anyway. And oral sex is a great way to get to know each other as partners while having loads of fun. Many women do not orgasm simply from penetration, but mostly through clitoral stimulation. If your partner isn’t already performing oral sex on you, please consider adding oral sex to your intimate time. It could work wonders for you! Also, don’t be afraid to talk to your partner about trying different locations to have sex. Add some lingerie to the mix. Arousment is usually the best solution for this type of problem. Some couples even enjoy role playing. There are many ways to add spice to your sex life to make up for a partner who has a small penis. There are many ways to gain pleasure.
Sex can have problems, but with every problem, there is a solution. Just like any other relationship, sex requires the proper communication and respect in order for the people participating in it to reap unanimous gratification. You won’t get anywhere if you fake any pleasure or not communicate with your partner in the first place. With that being said, be open! Be willing to explore your sexuality like the jungle it is and you will eventually catch a coconut. Perhaps then you will find what you are looking for.